I recently happened across various book reviews on divorce. The site (the divorceinsider.com) showed a few low cost ebooks as well as a review of completecase.com, another great site offering forms for any court in the USA, and with 100% money back guarantee. they seem to know what they are talking about.I found a few ebooks for both men and women, some were 100% legal, but some showed a darker and more nafarious side. Which is fine, if thats what you want from your pending break-up.But whichever path you prefer, all are in accord: use a attorney last, and not make them the first thing you look for.Sounds like sound advice to me, but you would be surprised at how many people merrily hand over all their cash, for the easiest of tasks that could be accomplished by them with no skill whatsoever.A lesson learned.