My wife wanted to get me an upgrade from my current wedding band. When we got married we were very short on money and ended up with sterling silver bands. I have always been fine with this. In fact, it takes a lot of pressure off thinking about losing it. Not to say I want to lose it, it would just make it easier if it did. Anyway, after looking for a while she decided to pick up a vigsel ring. I must admit that it is much more defining then my last ring, and I’m sure that I will treasure it even more as the years go on.