Remember when dating was as easy as making eye-contact with that cute guy in English class?  I can, but that was many years ago and, when I became suddenly single and in my late thirties, I quickly found dating had changed and so must I.  My first step toward facing reality was to join an adult dating site,  I wasn’t interested in finding true love or a prom date, I just wanted to have fun, and that’s what I’ve done.  The site allowed me to choose from people interested in the same things I am, and I’ve met several great guys.