Even if you hope to meet the person for a serious lifelong relationship, you should only hint at this in your It’s just Lunch ad. When you think about the qualities found in a true “soul mate” relationship, what one word comes up most often on the top of your list? With men becoming better in relationship handling, both parties will benefit from a more fulfilling relationship. We all make mistakes, and when we look back on our past relationships, it’s pretty clear that many of us make them all the time. There are various reasons men stay in unhealthy relationships.