Something happened and now it is over. You are left feeling like there is a piece of you missing, though you are too manly to ever admit it. Maybe that is precisely what you should do, a woman wants to know how you feel and how things effect you. We do not want to think of our men as emotionless robots. If you want to know how to get your ex back it is time to fess up some of the things that you have always held back. She needs to feel loved and needed and when those things are gone so is the relationship.